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After much thought we've decided to continue blogging. The main reason is not because we want to share our life with the world, but because we have realized how nice it is to have a journal or our lives of the past 6 years. We are going to have the old blog printed using blog2print. I have ordered a book of the first 3 years (2006-2009) which is about 215 pages and is going to cost a little over $100. It's so worth it. I can't wait to get it in the mail and I know we will really enjoy looking back through the pages of our lives. I'll get the second half printed after Christmas probably.

The other reason to keep the blog is to share important events with friends and family (especially those who don't do Facebook).  It's nice to have one place to post pictures and stories for them to see.

So, the blog is moving over to wordpress. We've found it's easier to work with and we can start from scratch which is nice. Here is the link to our new blog
http://jdeak.wordpress.com/

The End

Our blog has reached its maximum limit for photos finally. Google will not let us post more pictures on this site unless we pay for storage on Picassa. We are trying to decide what to do next. The options are moving to a different blogging host or not doing a blog at all. Stay tuned.

Hiking at Congaree

 Aaaah, Fall in Columbia. Sevent-five degrees. Leaves still dropping. Katie's first hike at Congaree Forest.

 

I forget, until I'm out there walking, the effect that woods tend to have on me. I used to take Ellen and Arianna up into the woods just out our back door when we lived in the Appalachians. Those are fond memories. I can wear a Baby Bjorn all day so long as the woods keep going.

 

The girls and friends enjoyed the wide open room to roam.

 We stopped at Wise Lake to each lunch. It couldn't have looked much different hundreds if not thousands of years ago. Just looking at it is like medicine.

 Katie, sitting up on her own, enjoyed a little lunch with Mom and tried to eat some leaves.

 These girls were up together until 1am last night. But in the woods everyone is all smiles.

 Even Katie.

But eventually the woods won. She tanked with about thirty minutes left to go.

Emerald Isle 2012

We just returned from our annual beach trip to the coast of NC with good friends. I wanna go back.

This year we enjoyed five days of clear sunny weather.

All the kids are really growing up.

Fortunately we have Katie.

What would the beach trip be like without any little ones? Everyone took turns holding and caring for Katie.

She cried the first time her legs were dipped in the cold water, but after several walks onto the beach she was accustomed. She went to sleep surprisingly easily and continued her practice of sleeping on average 45 minutes.
While Jennifer and I were on the porch Katie sat in front of us and she played with a plastic cup for almost ten minutes. That was the first time I've seen her really focus in on something and bite, suck, grab, hit, and attack it over and over again. She is really growing and very interested in anything that falls within mouth or hand reach. Just today she sucked her big toe.

We did not see Ellen and Arianna except in passing. 

They remained in a near frenzy of play with their friends. They played soccer, horseshoes, 

 

built sand castles, 

and  made up beach games.

The kids played Uno,

  

played Catch-Phrase,

  

played Spot-It,

 

played Clue, 

 

lots of drawing,

 

and spent a lot of time in the water. It's a bit nerve-racking watching them bowled over by waves or move out a bit, but they stayed together and seem to know their limits pretty well.

The adults enjoyed a lot of sitting around and chatting, fixing meals together,

and a bit of competitive catch-phrase. I enjoyed talking "work" with the guys and playing a bunch of guitar.

All in all a great trip. We are so fortunate to have such great friends to share these times with. 

 

Thanks Morrisons,

 

and Bullucks

for another great year at the beach.

Katie's First Laugh

Ellen and Arianna elicited Katie's first laugh while jumping on the trampoline. Here is a video of Katie watching the girls and chuckling a bit.

Our Doll Baby

She's just a few days away from 4 months old. She is our doll baby. People constantly tell us, "she looks like a doll" and "I've never seen so much hair on a baby." The girls were fighting over who got to dress her, hold her, carry her around. Literally, they were arguing about it so much that I had to make a rule that each of them gets a day to do everything for Katie every other day.

I think she looks even more like a doll when Arianna is holding her like this. People really have to look twice because it looks so much like a little girl carrying her doll:) One lady at the library last week said, "what a fantastic doll--it's so life like." We all got a good laugh.

A friend gave us a bunch of board books today and the girls took turns reading to her for a few minutes.

I can usually make her smile by making the kissing sound or we shake our head making other silly sounds. Pretty cute.

 

She has been taking small bites of food this week. She likes the banana, split peas, sweet potato, oatmeal and tried black eyed peas tonight. We just give her a tiny bit of what we are having to eat and she seems to enjoy it.

She sucks that thumb when she gets tired.

She loves being on her belly for a little while. She will roll over and off the green mat so we have to be more careful about where we put her now.

She always moves her head back when she smiles real big so the pictures come out blurry. You can imagine how sweet that face is in real life!

She still wakes up a lot at night about every 2 to 3 hours. She nurses and goes right back to sleep. Daniel takes her in the morning for me so I get some extra time to rest before he goes to work.

I've got to get a picture of her in the bath. I take a bath with her every night and it is such a pleasure because she loves it so much. She smiles the whole time and is mesmerized by the sound and feel of water. I love baby smiles when they look into your eyes and their whole face just lights up. It makes all those sleepless nights worth it.

E's 11th Birthday

A quick note to share about Ellen's birthday a couple weeks ago. 

Here's Ellen with a few of her friends celebrating her birthday.

I made her a chocolate cake and a strawberry ice cream cake.

Dad set up and hosted a smores roast by the fire.

Ellen's NYC trip (through Dad's eyes)

Ellen and I just returned from a late trip to NYC. We spent two nights and three days in the Big Apple and crammed in as much as we could handle. Below are some of the highlights of the trip as well as some answers to the obvious question: why in the world did yall drive up to NYC?

Atop the Empire State Building

We drove up to NYC and along the way stayed a night in Richmond with our good friends Lesley and Jason Bulluck and their boys Alder and Heath. Unfortunately my camera was on a "manual" setting and all my pictures were duds. From Richmond we drove to Philly and stayed with my brother David for a day and night. Both of these stops broke up the trip nicely, saved us some money on hotels, and made the trip much more fun.

Inside the Empire State Building

We arrived in Brooklyn at our hotel around lunch. Our hotel was crammed in between row houses in a working class neighborhood, but we chose Brooklyn because it was cheaper. The subway was three blocks away and required about thirty minutes one way to get in to central Manhattan. Our first day we went straight to the Empire State Building and determinedly waited in line for our turn to view from the 86th floor. When finished we ate lunch, took the subway up to Harlem and then walked back down to The Cathedral of St. John the Divine. When done we headed to Time Square, and after hanging around there we watched Phantom of the Opera at Majestic Theater. By 11:30pm we were back in our hotel. Quite a day.

Feeding the birds at Morningside Park before ascending the steps to The Cathedral Church of St. John the Divine.

Our second day we first took the Staten Island Ferry to view the Statue of Liberty and walked around the financial district. I made some sad attempt to explain the international importance of the NY Stock Exchange. Next, we headed for Central Park and literally hiked from the main entrance on the southwest corner at Columbus Circle all the way to the Metropolitan Museum of Art. This was one of those poorly chosen routes that Ellen cheerfully trekked through.

My Ellen...

Along the hike through Central Park we stopped for a father-daughter heart to heart. We spent several hours in the Metropolitan Museum viewing most thoroughly the ancient Egyptian exhibit and the European painters. Ellen had very real reverence around the Monets, Degas, and Van Goghs. Next we took the subway to the East Side and ate at Angelicas Kitchen, a well known vegan restaurant. We ended the night watching the crazies in Union Square before heading back to the hotel.

Inside The Cathedral Church of St. John the Divine.

Our third day was primarily souvenir shopping day. We headed back in to Time Square and Ellen carefully analyzed the very similar items at several of the souvenir shops before selecting some very nice little reminders of the trip. Then we had her portrait sketched by a sidewalk artist and said our farewell.

The zoo at Time Square.

We drove back to Richmond where we again spent the night with our friends. I don't know what we would have done without the Richmond stop. Thanks so much Bullucks for opening your home and feeding us. The trip was a great success. Ellen and I had a very memorable time together.

Lego heaven at Time Square Toys-r-us.

So, why a trip to NYC? Ellen turned ten that's why.

Look Mom! We're on a billboard in Time Square! Can you find us?

What I wanted was a way to make memorable a particular time in her life that should be memorable. She is no longer a little girl. She is not yet a fully independent woman. But ten is a good time to recognize just how marvelous the first decade has been, how thankful I am for her, to honor her hard work at school, piano, dance, her character, herself.

Scared to death of the gestapo like seating officials at Majestic Theater I quickly snapped a pic of Ellen before Phantom of the Opera started.

On the other side I wanted a memorable initiation into womanhood. I wanted some event to refer back to to as a point of initiation, a welcoming, but also to remember the forecasts that were given and commitments that were made. Don't worry those of you who know me. The preachy part of our trip lasted under thirty minutes in Central Park. But there I shared my heart with her, offered her what little and ill-developed thoughts I have for the next decade, and yes even offered her my expectations. Mostly I asked for us to preserve what we had right there on that rock over the next decade. No matter what we agreed to fight to keep our friendship. That in sum was the purpose of the trip.

Riding the Staten Island Ferry past the Statue of Liberty

Probably most memorable to me was the following: we held hands constantly for three days. Whether exiting or entering the subway, walking through Central Park, or weaving through the crowds in Time Square she held my hand tightly and in some sense I still haven't let go.

Statten Island Ferry

The trip will remain for me the milestone moment when I accepted my daughter as a partner and soon to be equal in this life. She kept up with our subway routes, kept up with me without a word of complaint, offered suggestions when I looked confused, and more often reminded me that nothing was worth getting stressed about. We were and are some strange mix of father/daughter and mutual friends. I hope to always be dad, but the older she becomes in maturity and grace the more thankful I am for such a friend and real partner to continue life with.

A moment of repose on our lengthy trek through Central Park. For a moment I thought we wouldn't make it out.

I'll remember her jumping up and down at each new sight or event and her very genuine joy in the presence of great acting or great art. We were both blown away by THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA. It is a magical performance and full of rich themes. I wondered whether Ellen would enjoy the show. She sat on the edge of her seat the entire performance. She ran to stand near the Degas ballerina paintings at the Met. She identified her Monet instantly. She beamed proudly standing next to van Gogh's self portrait.

Ellen loves Degas.

There were plenty of speechless moments atop the Empire State Building, gazing in wonder at the intricate craftsmanship in St. Johns Cathedral, or walking through Time Square at night. I don't often have the pleasure of watching her head explode in awe, excitement, or reverence, but it happened over and over again on the trip.

A father-daughter heart to heart on a rock in Central Park.

I'll remember watching her watch others on the subway or in the crowds. She was blown away by all the different languages she heard. She was intrigued by the poor folks singing on the subway asking for money, and couldn't stop glancing at the occasional crazy guy muttering to himself for all to hear. She was always cautious, but not scared. Curious, but not overly social.

I'm not sure where to rank feeding the birds. But it was up there.

There are a thousand ways to say thank you, make memorable moments, appreciate art, culture, and experience a different slice of life. This was ours. As Ellen gets older I'll keep vivid this treasure of a time we spent together. I told the girls that when they got older I'd take them on a special trip just daughter and dad. This was Ellen's choice. On a side note: I remember telling Arianna when she was much younger that I would take her on a special trip without Mom and Ellen and she promptly cried. At that time she couldn't even fathom doing anything without those two. But, she is primed and ready for her opportunity now.

Ellen's $5 portrait that ended up needing a $15 frame.

Here's to the next decade! Here's to Ellen!